Going through most social media statuses and posts makes me wonder if the future holds anything appetizing for genuine lovers or otherwise.
Admittedly, as of now, getting a genuine lover with no conditionalities attached may be close to impossibility. What I mean by this assertion is that many people enter into relationships with so many selfish reasons such as checking the financial muscles of their partner, beauty, height, academic background, family affluence and so forth. This has made entering into relationships a bit cumbersome now as compared to two or three decades ago.
But, those who are fortunate to grab themselves partners also get brokenhearted or jilted in few weeks or months time.
Any individual who might have stayed with more than three partners will realise that there are some stuff that might have pissed their respective partners off – knowingly or unknowingly.
I do not claim perfection here, but, I would want to share three basic things that most people are ignoring in relationships that could actually do the magic!
THE THREE STEPS I CALL – RTU
Note: The Stuff Goes For Both Males And Females And Never One-sided.
To honour your partner is a very special feature which can help you keep the person for a long time. No matter the age gap, financial differences or academic achievements, if both of you decide to accord the fullest respect to each other then everything will be cool.
This word is absent from the dictionaries of many lovers. Feel secured around or away from your partners and allow certain degree of privacy for each other. Subduing suspicion will elevate trust.
It’s prudent to get or comprehend what your partners are saying or suggesting via their mind’s eye or through their mirrors. Frankly, it shouldn’t be difficult to understand someone you claim to love though.
Conclusively, if you’re a believer, employing Matthew 7:12 which states, “Do Unto Others What You Want Others To Do Unto You”, will settle everything.
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