A YOUNG LADY’S DILEMMA

This is a letter a young lady wrote to some ‘experts’ to give her advice on. i chanced upon this letter and I want to share this with our cherished readers.

I love this man who is that perfect gentleman every woman will want to settle with.

We have been dating for almost 5 months and he has shown how much he cares about me, my feeling and where he wants our relationship to go.

I am 27 years old, a graduate  of University of  Ghana who just started working. In fact, it was through his connections that I landed this job after 2 years of searching.

I like  to take my relationships  slow and I’ve done the same with this man. Currently, I do not have any fear or reason not go get intimate   with him but the problem is, he says he does not like condoms , which means he intends not to use one with me.

During one of our discussions, I told him I recent took an STD test so if he wants to make love to me without  protection and he insist on that, he should do  the same. Even if he wants, I can do it together with him. But he says, does he look like someone who carries any STD and that my suggestion is insulting.

I am not sure if a person who carries any STD is supposed to have some particular look. The thing is, I am worried about my sexual health  than anything and this is also a man I do not want to left go. I love him  and he is a good man .

I’ve been thinking for days now as has turn cold towards me. What should I do?

This is the young Lady’s dilemma.