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Don’t Bother Me With Your Unplanned Pregnancies – Relationship Expert Wails On Facebook

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Don’t Bother Me With Your Unplanned Pregnancies – Relationship Expert Wails On Facebook

Don’t Bother Me With Your Unplanned Pregnancies – Relationship Expert Wails On Facebook


He said it is better to be safe than to be sorry so no one should risk other people’s lives. He wrote:


Even though pregnancy is a nice thing for financially stable couples and genuine lovers, it becomes a burden for those who are unprepared for them. As a result of inadequate financial issues, schooling or other menaces, some pregnancies become burdens instead of blessings.

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A relationship expert has bemoaned the manner in which some supposed broke pregnant women flood her inboxes with financial requests for common things like lorry fare for antenatal, food, clothes and so forth.

Registering her discomfort in this situation she vented her frustrations on social media.

The outspoken relationship expert noted;


He said it is better to be safe than to be sorry so no one should risk other people’s lives. He wrote:


***Quite a number of heavily pregnant women send their pictures to my inbox telling me to assist them because they are almost due and have no money.
How can I wake up to messages of three different pregnant women crying to me that they are almost due and don’t have money? Did I do the fucking with you? Did I get you pregnant? This is getting infuriating.

First of all, I’ve stated a million times that no one should beg me for money again. I work my ass for my money and I won’t be distributing it to random people on Facebook.
Secondly, I’m the “WRONGEST” person to ask for money for delivery. I hold a VERY STRONG opinion that people who can’t afford to feed themselves, buy baby items and pay for caesarean section should NOT get pregnant till they save up enough money to do all these and more.
I might give money to anyone (if I want). I will NOT give money to help foot the bill of a pregnant woman who didn’t plan for her pregnancy. People don’t exist on earth to see to your foolishness.

Exceptions abound… like rape victims, teenage pregnant girls… etc. But I’m NOT talking about the exceptions here.
Pregnancy is NOT a surprise!
You strip naked and have unprotected sex, then about 9 months to prepare. Stop bothering me for what you chose to do with your penises and vaginas.
I don’t care if anyone thinks this is insensitive. Your thoughts won’t get money out of my account.
How do you get pregnant when you don’t have money to eat? How the hell do you people do it? In 9 months time, another fool who has read this post will still come inbox to show me her pregnancy pictures and how she’s not eaten. And you will not even as much as get a reply from me. Neither will I acknowledge I even read your message.
Listen, there are lots of “good samaritans” on Facebook who would pamper you, raise money for you, pay your hospital bills and encourage your foolishness. But I’m NOT one of them.
I believe that adults should take responsibility for their actions and not make stupid decisions with the expectations that others would be kind enough to help clean up their mess.

BROKE/POOR PREGNANT WOMEN should stay away from my inbox!
– Nkechi Bianze***

Do you think she has a point here?

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C. A. Asante is a teacher (Village Teacher) by profession who has reported on a number of elections in Ghana for Central Press Newspaper. He is known among his peers as a researcher and regular contributor in Education, Politics, etc. Follow : Instagram- @ chris_asante1...Facebook: CA Asante

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