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Making love for the first time

There’s always a first time for everything in life.And it always helps to
know a few rules before having sex for the first time, most people
watch porn stars doing the deed to learn the moves and assume that’s what
lovemaking should look like.

But here’s a piece of advice, the sex you watch in porn movies isn’t
normal, so don’t compare yourself to that and don’t try to reenact a porn
movie in your bedroom the first time you try to have sex.In reality, first
time sex is just like the first kiss. It’s instinctive and personal

Here are a few tips to make sure you enjoy any of your first experiences
The first time is a big deal. It really is. You spend several months or
years wondering how first time sex would feel, and when the inevitable
moment arrives, you’re obviously going to feel the immense pressure of your
first sexual performance weighing on your shoulders.

The first time you rode a bicycle or drove a car, you weren’t your best at
it, were you? You needed time and a bit of practice to perfect it.And just
like that, having sex too takes time and experience to master it. And when
it comes to having sex too, it works just the same way.

Do you really have to wait to have sex for the first time?

Everyone says you have to wait for the right person to come along, wait for
the right time, and wait for the right frame of mind, to have sex for the
first time. But does that really matter?Actually, it does preferable when
your are married.

When you have sex for the first time with someone who doesn’t really care
about your feelings, they may not care about how you feel just as long as
they take your virginity from you. And if you’re not in the right frame of
mind, you may get carried away by the lust or even dislike sex for a long
time.

First time sex is no different than the first kiss or the first time you
dry hump, and every sexual experience is just as magical and passionate. So
take your time to enjoy every sexual experience one step at a time, so when
it’s time to have sex, you know you’ll be ready.

You can have first time sex only once in your lifetime!

Well, I’m not going to preach here, and I’m sure you’re old enough to think
for yourself and know if you’re ready. But here are a few things to keep
in mind before diving into sexual intercourse. After all, you can have
first time sex just once in your entire lifetime!

If you think you’re ready to have sex, talk about it with your partner.
Both of you should feel ready to have sex, and even if one of you isn’t
ready just yet, wait a while. Don’t give into pressure or do it because a
friend of yours says it’s amazing. First time sex feels perfect only if the
two people indulging in it communicate with each other and care about each
other.

If you’re being arm twisted into having sex for the first time, it could
leave you feeling emotionally scarred and you may end up remembering it as
a bad experience. If your boyfriend says all his friends have had sex and
he’ll break up with you if you don’t have sex with him, dump the guy, he’s
not worth it.

How to have sex for the first time and enjoy it

Take time to explore each others bodies before having sex for the first
time. There’s so much to experience and try with different parts of each
your bodies,  there’s really no need to rush into sex if you haven’t
done the rest yet. And when both of you feel emotionally ready, well,
here’s what you need to do.

If both of you are ready to have sex with each other, then there shouldn’t
be any awkwardness talking about each others sexual history. After all,
it’s always better to know where it’s been before you put it inside you!

And no matter what the circumstances are, always use protection. Being on
the pill may protect you from an unexpected pregnancy, but that’s not
enough. Make sure the guy uses a condom every time there’s penetration so
both of you can feel protected from sexually transmitted diseases.

The best position to have first time sex

If you have no idea about how to have sex or about the different positions,
you would definitely feel clumsy trying out moves that you’ve seen in the
movies.

If you want to enjoy first time sex, stick to the basics and do the
missionary. The missionary position is the one where one partner lies on
their back, and the other partner lies down on top of them.

Not only is the missionary position easy, it’s also the best position for
first time sex because both of you can control the movements of each other.
Other positions may make one of you lose control and push harder or more
forcefully than necessary. And more importantly, the missionary position
ensures that both your faces are close to each other, which builds intimacy
too.

While having sex using the missionary position, the person who’s on top is
usually in control of the movements. Being on top also takes stamina and
effort, and can be more tiring too. So both of you can switch places by
rolling over now and then to take control.

 

Source:

Monica Otumfuor

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Monica Maakor Otumfuor an Alumni of Ghana Institute of Journalism is a Writer and English tutor by profession. A voice over artist and an articulate spokesperson. She loves to volunteer and is passionate about mentoring others.

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